Stop fueling their Saboteurs. Remember that Saboteurs in one person tend to trigger Saboteurs in the other. It is therefore very likely that the other person’s Saboteurs have been triggering your own. Your Saboteurs in turn energize theirs even more, leading to a vicious cycle. You need to break this cycle by preventing yourself from being hijacked by your own Saboteurs when you are in the other person’s presence. Intensify your effort to label and let go of your Saboteurs, or do PQ reps, when you notice their Saboteurs coming.
