But here’s something else you don’t want to miss. I want you to see this chapter not as a call to rush out and get married, but as a call to live under a biblical leadership principle that should inform the rest of your life: you will lead from who you are in private. Right now that may be living with roommates or with parents. In the future it will be with a wife and probably kids. But you must learn to live and lead from the inside out. As John Kitchen says, “The life you live in private determines the ministry you can have in public.”
