“What is revealed to me is what is important to me, what concerns me. Each person must be concerned with him- or herself … with making him- or herself … whole. We have lessons to learn … each one of us. They must be learned one at a time … in order. Only then can we know what the next person needs, what he or she lacks or what we lack, to make us whole.” She spoke in a soft whisper, and her whisper conveyed a feeling of loving detachment.