A woman who is hiding invites others to do the same. “Don’t be vulnerable. Hide yourself.” A woman who makes herself vulnerable and available for intimacy invites others to do the same. After all, Eve is the incarnation of the heart of God for intimacy. She says to the world, through her invitation to relationship, You are wanted here. We want to know you. Come in. Share yourself. Be enjoyed. Enjoy me as I share myself. A woman who is controlling cannot invite others to rest, to be known. They will feel controlled in her presence. It won’t feel safe there.
