A common example is that a lot of men struggle to read body language and it frustrates some of them that they don’t pick up on moods or unhappiness in people. If you have someone in your life like this, then it is pretty unreasonable of you to expect him to suddenly develop this skill. It is unlikely to happen. He doesn’t have the problem, it is how he is built; it is you that has the problem if you don’t accept this. Of course he is trying to read your body language, but he needs you to explain or express your feelings verbally so that he can understand. It doesn’t help him if you expect him
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