Check that you are talking to the right person for your agenda. Make sure it is the right time to have the conversation. Check that the place for the conversation is appropriate. Establish the agendas of your Chimp and Human. Remove the unreasonable parts of your Chimp’s agenda. Approach the conversation in Human mode. Remember to present the conversation with the right packaging. Help to manage the Chimp in the other person. Find the agenda of the Human and Chimp in the other person. Clarify your own agenda. Agree any common ground and outcomes aimed for. Try to meet the other person’s agenda
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