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Steve Peters
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March 6 - March 10, 2023
The Chimp is fast to reach a conclusion and doesn’t wait for all of the information to come through before reaching its conclusion. The Chimp forms an opinion based on its feelings and impressions and then fixes its opinion. It then searches out evidence to back up its opinion and prove its point.
Anxiety typically occurs when you don’t make a decision. It is a perfectly natural response from your Chimp showing that it is healthy. The answer therefore is to make a decision or reassure the Chimp!
drives. A drive is something that compels us to get up and do something. If we didn’t have drives we would just sit around and do nothing. Drives fulfil needs that we have, both physical and emotional.
Where did the idea that life is fair or SHOULD be fair come from?
So the difference between ‘Truths’ and ‘Values’ is that ‘Truths’ are evidence-based, whereas ‘Values’ are personal judgement calls.