always be asking thinking questions: • “Would you rather carry your coat or wear it?” • “Would you rather put your boots on now or in the car?” • “Would you rather play nicely in front of the television or be noisy in your room?” We don’t use fighting words: • “You put that coat on now!” • “Because I said put your boots on, that’s why! It’s snowing outside.” • “I’m trying to watch this football game, so be quiet!”
