“Look at me!” then keep repeating your question or statement. For example, “Where did the $5,000 go?” “Are you telling me I have to sort through all this when you don’t even balance your checkbook?” “Look at me! Where did the $5,000 go?” “If you don’t like my bookkeeping then you do the taxes from now on. I’ve had it with you.” “Look at me! Where did the $5,000 go?”

