The Power of the P*ssy - How to Get What You Want From Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More!: Dating and Relationship Advice for Women (Dating and Relationship ... Respect, Commitment, and More! Book 1)

by Kara King

Have you ever wondered why some women can get men to treat them well, while other women struggle with their relationships? What are these women doing that the other women aren’t? I can tell you these women don’t fall into these situations by accident.

But, the challenge we face isn’t in simply finding the good man. The real challenge lies within two things: being able to recognize a good man, but also being the type of woman that makes him want to be your good man. However, as we all know, making any man want to be dedicated, faithful and caring can sometimes be a challenge. It takes skill. The powers are going to provide you with that expertise.

Before we move forward with the book, I must ask for three things: Courage. Commitment. Change. Your commitment to follow through and your courage to change will directly reflect your success. The old ways weren’t working, so now it’s time to change if you want to start experiencing a different outcome with men.

Learning to use the power of controlling your emotions may possibly be your biggest challenge because it forces you to go against what you’re automatically inclined to do, which is to be emotional.

You must evolve if you want to beat men at their own game. You must learn to control your emotions.

It is necessary, however, to become aware of your emotions and their ability to control your actions. Once we’re aware of this fact, then we can control our actions by controlling our emotions.

When you master the ability to control your emotions, you take away a man’s power over you.

However, some men do know what they’re doing. These are the worst. You must be on the look out; aware and cautious. They’re like predators stalking prey. These are the players, the cheaters, the users, the pimps, the douche bags and the all around assholes.

There are a lot of men out there that will do and say anything just to get what they need.

They know how to use a woman’s emotions against her by telling her in the most sincere ways just exactly what she wants to hear.

Simply put, you were acting with your heart, instead of listening to your head.

Sounds romantic and it seems like that’s what you’re supposed to do for love, but it’s actually the worst thing you can do. Unless, you enjoy being a fool in love. But if you want to be a strong woman who doesn’t have issues with men, it’s a huge mistake. Therefore, I ask that you forget about romance and going with your feelings. Those days are gone (for now).

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You have to know who’s boss. Is it your emotions or your brain? It should be an easy choi...

Allowing our emotions to influence our actions and decisions is what gets us into trouble.

This is why so many of us take

the loser back, repeatedly.

It’s easy to recognize when the emotions are making you a fool. The hard part is once you recognize it, you have to control it.

“I know I’m terribly sad right now and there’s nothing I want more than to be back with him. But, I realize that’s my emotions talking and I’ve decided that this time I’m not going to do what my emotions want me to do.”

No man will ever have power or control over you or be able to use your emotions against you. This is a really BIG DEAL!

Let’s Review How to Control Emotions: Recognize that because you’re a woman, you’re naturally inclined to react on emotion. (There is nothing wrong with that fact, we just need to recognize that we can greatly benefit from knowing when and how to control it.) Now that you know this, never make decisions based on your emotions!!! Recognize the emotions/feelings/pain will still be there. You’re not going to give into it this time, because you are in control.

If he hasn’t been treating you the way you deserve or want to be treated…let him go.

He screwed up and now he must pay the consequence: He lost YOU.

Whether or not you continue to force this toxic relationship to work, you will still feel the pain! Why not feel the pain while doing something productive; rather than chase, stalk, grovel, wonder, worry or cry over your guy?

fuck that, you don’t owe him anything. Your presence was enough.

Men use us all the time. You’re using filler dates for your own benefit, just as a man would easily use a woman for sex. Don’t feel guilty. Control those emotions of guilt and move forward.

Liar Manipulator Unkind Stupid Talks with no intelligence or filter Authoritative Can never change Toxic Mean Insultive Big lips Not that attractive Bad attitude Not empathetic Not caring Not kind Not compassionate Cheat Useless Easy to get Not informed Boring Annoying Not vulnerable or emotional towards me Withdraws affection from me Gaslights me Emotionally manipulative Proud Psychopath ABSOLUTELY NOT THE MAN FOR ME. Lied to me made me cry cheated on me Emotionally manipulated me, made me see myself as problematic, constantly pointed out my flaws, emotionally drained me

You know you should just wait it out and let him come to you, but you’re dying to reach out to him. Don’t do it! Be patient. Control yourself. Always wait it out and always make them come to you. If he doesn’t, that’s a SURE SIGN he doesn’t like you.

Period.

If a guy likes you, he will eventually begin to pursue you. If he doesn’t, then he doesn’t like you. No excuses. Don’t pursue men. Control those emotions that urge you to go after men. It’s okay to flirt. Just don’t pursue.

Don't give up on him if he isn't giving you signs right away. Light flirting and patience will get you a lot further in the long run, than being the pursuer.

Men only want you when you don’t want them.

Don’t go on one or two dates with some guy and immediately start getting feelings for him or start thinking he’s the one. Slow down. Control yourself and play hard to get.

You don’t need to do it every time, but you should be the one getting off the phone a majority of the time.

You must promise yourself that from this day forward you are taking responsibility for YOUR

actions.

They are your emotions and you must learn to control them by not allowing them to dictate your actions.

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A fulfilling long lasting loving relationship Passion Gifts Dinners True love Deep kisses Eyes for only me Honestly Straightforwardness A man that can lead us and teach me well without looking down on me A man that doesn’t tell stupid lies Intelligence Financial sense Good communication Happiness Gives me my space to shine Knows how much I’m worth

This is your “asking price.” Then you don’t settle for anyone until they are willing to give you your “asking price.” When they’re willing to give you what you want, then you can “sell.”

Wives of faithful men put a price tag of “honesty and faithfulness,” and didn’t sell until they were sure they had a faithful and honest man.

Until you get what you want, you're still on the market. Don't settle for men that are unwilling to pay the price for your love and affection! Aren't you worth it?

Men Need Us, We Don’t Need Them

She convinces herself it’s okay to rush into it because both are consenting adults in a moment of passion.

The trick is DO NOT HAVE SEX.

You may think, “If two people like each other, then what’s the problem?” Remember...these are men we’re dealing with!

“Men don’t love sluts.”

The woman they really want is the one who rejects them. They want to get the girl that’s a challenge and doesn’t give it up easily. The girl that

makes him wait for it, work for it, and chase after it. The woman he falls in love with is the exact opposite of a slut, because men don’t fall in love with sluts.

Men fall in love with ladies. Ladies who are mature enough to know they don’t have to have sex. Ladies who don’t even want to have sex quickly, because it’s an unladylike thing to do. The type of woman a man will love gives off a vibe that says loud and clear: “I’m not an easy girl and you’re going to h...

Men are like little boys with their toys. Make them wait, make them work, make them pay, and then they will love you, appreciate you, and take good care of you.