to approach her. She’ll dismiss him in a polite manner. She looks in the mirror and sees a beautiful woman. Compliments other women, sees the beauty in other women because she doesn’t feel threatened by them. Gives a man an initial chance, even if he isn’t the finest guy in the room because she isn’t vain. Therefore, she isn’t pushing away potentially good men and limiting her choices. Knows she isn’t perfect, so she doesn’t expect perfection from a mate. Still has self-doubt and things she dislikes about herself, but feels good about herself regardless of her flaws.

