You can alternate among different charisma styles or even blend them together. Don’t force yourself into a charisma style that is just too awkward for you. Doing so would negatively affect how you feel and how others perceive you. The more charisma styles you can access, the more versatile and confident you will be. Stretch out of your comfort zone in low-stakes situations. Stick with styles you already know well in high-stakes situations. Let goodwill be your safety net. Coming from a place of genuine goodwill gives you the best chance of getting your charisma right.
