They are that which they are, creators of their own life experience, attracting unto themselves, while I am creator of my experience, attracting unto me. That is the Art of Allowing.. . . And as you state that to yourself again and again, soon you will come to recognize that they are not really messing up your world in the way that you might think that they are. They are creating their own world. And to them, it may not be a world that is messed up.
