Do not give thought to those things that you do not want, and you will not have them in your experience. Do not speak of that which you do not want, and you will not attract it into your experience. And so, when you understand that, then, as one who is observing others having experiences that they do not want, you are not so filled with negative emotion, because you understand that they are now in the process of receiving an understanding of how all things come to them.