Givers are those people who brighten the room with their positive vibe and excitement for life. Takers are those who immediately seem to dim the room with their lack of excitement and depressing outlook on life. I can feel a “dimmer” coming toward me from far away. There could be 50 people in the room and I could spot the one who is sucking the life out of the room. I just run from these kinds of people. I’m looking for people with an infectious positive attitude, who bring energy, vitality and who brighten the room, not dim the room with their nagging and negativity.