That’s all there is to it. You’ll remember to eat before coming to the party (the Munching or Mingling technique) to leave your hands free for heavy networking. When you arrive, you’ll stop in the doorway and Rubberneck the Room to get the lay of the land. While rubbernecking, you’ll Be the Chooser, Not the Choosee and pick your prospects for the evening. When standing around, your hands will be relaxing in the inviting Come Hither position.