Secrets are the enablers of antisocial, immoral and destructive behavior. Do you see how this is?” “I think so. But—” “You know what my spouse said to me years ago when we got married? She said that whenever we were apart, for instance when I might go on a business trip, I should behave as if there were a camera on me. As if she were watching. Way back when, she was saying this in a purely conceptual way, and she was half-kidding, but the mental picture helped me. If
