sent a message to my partner Jim: “Bring home a loaf of bread.” 3. Place your target in front of your mind’s eye. 4. “Be” with your target by embodying and experiencing your connection. Words are often an ineffective way to get a message across. Engage all your senses. And believe in your message. To make it more effective and to add a little fun, shower your target with good thoughts. Send them incomparable blessings. Think about them winning the lottery, getting a date with Channing Tatum, winning a trip around the world.