Bending over backward eventually causes our backs to break. I’ve come to understand that a healthy relationship relies on open communication, honesty, and a balanced exchange of love and care. We have a duty to take care of and protect ourselves. So, if we’ve finally woken up to the red flags we’ve been ignoring and realized that we’ve invested in the wrong person, then that’s a moment for applause, not one for self-criticism. We’ve already paid a heavy price for settling for a love that isn’t good enough, with the time that has already been spent.
