The problem might not even have a solution. But you aren’t necessarily looking for solutions. You’re maybe just looking for someone to say “Sorry about how dead your fish are,” or “Wow, those are super dead. I still like you, though.”
Oh my God! It touched me so deeply because this what I’m feeling lately... people like to show off “positivity” like you are doing a crime by being depressed... they want to jump with solutions as you never knew
