Changing our mind can feel like being in a burning house and finally opening the front door, escaping into fresh air. And it’s such a relief, until you realize the very thing that saved you sent the room you left straight up in flames. Just because something burns doesn’t mean you did the wrong thing by opening the door. At the same time, not all fires are created equal, and just because you feel the flame doesn’t mean something has gone terribly wrong or even that you’re in danger.
