And so the question of leaving or staying in a relationship, in a job, in a vocation, in a volunteer position, at a church, in a particular town or home—these questions are not all created equal. No two people ever have the same decision to make. If you and I are discerning if it’s time for each of us to move across the country, I already have ingrained narratives about what that means. If you’ve lived in the same place your whole life, so do you. We aren’t asking the same questions.
