My father and I haven’t spoken in months. I called him to tell him that Christian and I were getting married by the court in January. I invited him, along with my mother and Travis and Justin, to be witnesses with Edwin. My father was the only one who didn’t show up. It broke my heart so badly I almost couldn’t go through with it. My mother was the one who got me to appear for my own ceremony. Don’t cry over something he will grow to regret. You’re getting married for you, not him.

