‘female’ ” to my list of grievances. I say, “You think the reason women have interests is to be quirky?” “What? No, I didn’t say that. I just mean liking true crime in particular isn’t some oddity—” “But why do you think a woman’s objective in being into true crime is to be unique?” He stammers, “Why are you yelling?” I wasn’t yelling. “Are you into sports to be unique?” Vin asks. He frowns. “You’re both missing my point.” “I’m not,” I say.