“I've never been very submissive,” I told him. “Or dominant for that matter,” I added a second later. “I’m an in-betweenie, I think. I’ve never been to any clubs or parties like that. Not because I'm not interested, but because I’d be reported. All my hook-ups were secrets and were kept within a closed circle. My guards. Friends my father didn’t know about. The occasional one-night stand with another member of—”
