find people of all ages whom you admire and want to be like, and hang out with them. What happens in those relationships? They’re not giving you formal instruction or walking you through a curriculum; they’re just being themselves while you watch them in different life situations. Without even realizing it, you’re learning how to handle those situations in your own life. They model effectiveness for you. They’re not forcing you to change; they’re influencing you. You become different by being around them.
