Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity

by Andrew Solomon

The disability rights movement seeks, at the most basic level, to find accommodation of difference rather than erasure of it. One of its signal successes is to understand that the interests of children, parents, and society do not necessarily coincide, and that the children are the least able to stand up for themselves. Many people with profound differences maintain that even well-run asylums, hospitals, and residences are analogous to the treatment of African-Americans under Jim Crow. Medical diagnosis is implicated in this separate-and-unequal response. Sharon Snyder and David Mitchell, both academics in disability studies, contend that those who seek cures and treatments often “subjugate the very populations they intend to rescue.” Even today, American children with disabilities are four times more likely than nondisabled ones to have less than a ninth-grade education. Some 45 percent of Britons with disabilities and some 30 percent of working-age Americans with disabilities live below the poverty line.