Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity

by Andrew Solomon

One popular principle is mindblindness, an inability to recognize how another person’s thoughts differ from one’s own. A child is shown a candy package and asked what he thinks it contains. He thinks it contains candy. It is opened and he is shown that it contains a pencil instead. He is then asked what another child will think when shown the closed package. Nonautistic children expect the other child to be duped just as they were. Autistic children expect the child to know the package has a pencil in it. A number of recent imaging studies have demonstrated that mirror neurons, usually activated when a person either performs or observes an action, fire in autistic subjects only when they themselves are doing something and remain mute when they are observing someone else.