Instead of just getting Derick to decide for me, I thought over our conversation and decided to pray and study the issue more myself. I looked at the Bible to see what else it said about women in pants (turns out not so much) and looked past the style choices of the pastor’s wife and the worship leader and decided that I liked, admired, and respected them. The more I talked with them, the more I could see that they were both godly women who just happened to wear pants and a nose ring. It didn’t define them.