Now, there is no denying the galvanizing anger of “You Oughta Know,” but what is harder to capture in three words is how funny Alanis can be, and how much funnier she gets the angrier she gets, which is bad news for the crap dude but great news for us, such that the best moment in the whole song is the vehemence with which she spits out the words, “I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner.”

