In my family, divorce was a kind of sacred rite, passed down from matriarch to matriarch. My mother is a third-generation divorcée, which means that my great-grandmother left her husband. Divorce in 1917 was likely to turn a respectable woman into the town harpy, but the holiness of the divorce rite was so deeply embedded in her genetic code that even witch burnings and convents couldn’t keep my great-grandmother married. My grandmother’s heart fluttered when she saw us tumble onto her doorstep, bags in hand. “Finally,” she said, “you’ve come to your senses and left that fucking man. I’ve said
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