At first, it was throwing glasses at walls and taking out his anger on stuff around the house. Then it was me. Slapping and pulling my hair and shoving me into walls. He was always yelling at me about how I’d hit him too, how it was my fault too, and I was just like … what are you talking about? I haven’t touched you. Ben: To be clear, he was hitting you—abusing you—but telling you that you were hitting him? Julia: Yes. Constantly.
