But he has often made light of her career, has called her sadness after a miscarriage “drama,” and has reactive tantrums if she asks him to help around the house, then criticizes her for wasting money when she hires a cleaner. He will often be quite dismissive of her desire to spend time with friends and family, calling her friends “parasites” and her family a “swamp of domestic boredom,” which deeply hurts her, and he is very selfish with his time.
