something amazing happened during our sessions. Through discussing their differences, Jon recognized that Marta was primarily afraid—not inherently reserved. As such, he would simply have to help her come out of her shell. Jon needed to go more slowly in the bedroom, emphasize his feelings of tenderness, and warm Marta up until she reached his level of excitement, which took her longer. Marta recognized that Jon wasn’t a dangerous guy, just a tad wild, and that his love for her was genuine. As she wrestled with a sense of shame at some of his hijinks, she admitted that they also turned her on.
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