You can also ask yourself: What action or pursuit makes me feel the happiest? Note that “happiness” is not the same as comfort; typically, what makes us feel happy and fulfilled is actually uncomfortable, as we will discuss later in this chapter. Think back to something you’ve achieved that gave you the purest sense of fulfillment and purpose. It could be a singular one-time achievement, like winning a tennis match, taking a beautiful photograph, or learning about birds you admire.