"Drink the tea." "No." It's not that I'm not going to drink the tea, it's just that I don't want to be forced to drink the tea. I don't want to be told what to do. Call it immature, call it what you will, but I've had a lifetime of being manipulated and controlled and I'm not starting this new—relationship or whatever it is—with the expectations that I'm going to put up with bullshit.
