New York Times columnist David Brooks famously distinguished between “résumé virtues” and “eulogy virtues.”[5] Résumé virtues are what we talk about in life—where we work, what we’ve accomplished, what accolades we’ve received, and so on. Eulogy virtues are what others talk about when we die—namely, the people we were, the fabric that made up our character, and the relationships that defined our sojourn on this earth.
