Haunted Love

by Sarafini

“I am saying that such actions for a 10-year-old girl towards a crush at school were inappropriate and subconsciously told her that she must be the giver and not the receiver. It also set up a dysfunctional dynamic for her future relationships with men. It’s no coincidence that she chased the same boy throughout her teenage years, ended up in a one-sided relationship, and is severely depressed. You have enabled her unhealthy obsession with this person and affirmed that this is what love is.” Dr. Evil took a deep breath before continuing. “Oh, but then one day, the house of cards falls. He leaves, and she then kills herself in response. Fortunately, Sheena survived her attempt, but for so many women, that’s how their story ends. I don’t expect you in one session to fully understand your role in Sheena’s sickness or how you’ve fostered an environment for this behavior, but I expect you to consider what I’m saying.”