Afraid of leaving. Between thinking that his behaviour is down to some error on your part, fearing that you haven’t given it your all, fearing not having the purpose of fighting for the relationship and being left with yourself for company, and fear that if you do leave, you’ll have to fix another man, or that even worse, your current man will be a better man in a better relationship elsewhere, there’s a lot of negative reasons to stay. But if you’re going to stay, make it a positive decision. Remaining because you’re afraid of leaving is like imprisoning yourself in a relationship that you
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