More often than not, it becomes: I’ll love him unconditionally —> I’ll be there, stick to him like glue, accept boundary-busting behaviour ---> He’ll love me back unconditionally and because I turn a blind eye to his behaviour, he’ll turn a blind eye to my so-called flaws —> He doesn’t love me back unconditionally —> What’s wrong with me that someone so flawed, who has the option to behave as they like and still be loved, doesn’t love me? —> I must be a very unloveable person if I can’t even be loved by someone like that.
