Mr Unavailable was Mr Unavailable before you met him, when you were with him, and he’s highly likely to stay that way long after you’ve gone. You didn’t do something to trigger his distance; you can’t win! If you’d played it cool and been uninterested, he’d have chased you down. If you’d thrown yourself at him, he’d have run away. You can’t change him and I want you to stop blaming yourself for crap behaviour from the waifs and strays of the dating world and I want you to start living like someone who deserves to be here, that loves herself, and has positive love to give that is reflected from
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