Good girls, from stable homes. Both parents still together, happily married for a gazillion years, loves Mr Unavailable - why? Their marriage is the stable future you want eventually but for now you need ‘excitement’. Of course you get hurt which can put you into an extended spin cycle. Women who date men who are highly educated, high achievers, but still Mr Unavailable. Some Fallback Girls prioritise the power they feel that their father didn’t have or exhibit. For example if the mother was the breadwinner and especially if your father lorded it up in spite of not contributing. You’ll be
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