“But nobody’s perfect! We all have baggage!” True but not all baggage is conducive to a relationship. Don’t continue to bullshit yourself. You overempathise and reason that you’re not perfect and have baggage so it’s harsh to judge him for the same thing. Deal with your feelings about your so-called ‘imperfections’ instead of marking yourself down and deciding that you’re only deserving of a demi-relationship. This isn’t a ‘perfection’ and ‘baggage’ issue; it’s a willingness and mentality issue.
