Susie says, ‘I think you do know how to love.’ ‘Do I?’ ‘I don’t think you know how to be loved.’ ‘What do you mean?’ ‘Most women can give – we’re trained to it – but most women find it hard to receive. You are generous and you are kind – I wouldn’t want to be with you otherwise, no matter how brainy and impressive you are – but our conflicts and our difficulties revolve round love. You don’t trust me to love you, do you?’