After a week of shiva, the mourners rise from their home, and the community walks, together, around the block in a kind of symbolic reentry to the world, empty as it now is of their loved one. This is an exercise in spiritual mobility—can you move, still? Can you see that the sun still rises, the dogs still bark, your neighbor’s kid still sneaks out for a cigarette, and there’s still too much traffic? There is still vitality in this now forever broken world. There is still surprise and wonder, life and love. Your loved one has died, and you, you are still alive. We will hold this grief with
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