I was the carefree one, the one that liked to take chances and make spur-of-the-moment decisions. I chose to stay with my brother and his new mate in a split-second decision, too. I moved in with them, and now that I’ve been around another person who lives life in a carefree, spontaneous way… I find it frustrating. It makes me realize how aggravating those decisions can be for those around me. It’s made me change.