“Then don’t keep waiting for your husband to approach you about sex. That just makes you feel more like a victim—you feel attacked and defensive. And stop looking at sex as something you trade with your husband. Or as something being done to you. You have an opportunity here to make a conscious decision to increase the unconditional love in your own life and in your relationship with Matt. You committed yourself to learn to love this man for a lifetime. Now you can choose to be more loving and change your relationship. Don’t wait for him to approach you. Go to him and offer to have sex. You’re
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