When you extinguish that final cigarette, you will find that your smoking friends and colleagues will fall into two distinct categories. The first I referred to earlier: the ones that blow smoke in your face, perpetually remind you of the pleasures of being a smoker and continue to offer you cigarettes in the pretence they have forgetten that you’ve quit. Why do even relatives and good friends become so unpleasant and vindictive in these circumstances? The first thing that you need to realise is that you are dealing with the fear and panic of a drug addict. All aggression is based on fear. The
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