We do not all have the same skill sets or capacity for risk, but “getting in the game” to take pressure off of organizers can take many shapes. “To get in the game with me can mean asking, ‘Hey, Ejeris, are you eating? Can I send you food? Hey, how do I take something off your plate?’ Not, ‘You should slow down,’ but, ‘I see what you’re doing and what we’re up against. How do we do that together?’”

