What I thought was a pattern was just a small sample size of the wrong guys, and it was worth navigating the many situations I struggled to understand to find someone who taught me how much peace lies within feeling understood. Call it the universe, call it random, call it a numbers game. We just vibe well together, to use the technical term. I want to say something profound, but I also just want to blush and say I think he’s handsome and smart and cute and funny, and I just thoroughly enjoy his company, his values, his family, and his dedication to me and our Shih Tzu, Tugboat.

